We needed time to revive the group.
Following our confusion of the previous day - a confusion torn between the different perspectives about the refugee camp, yesterday we finally had some time to reset our minds by spending the day as a team, together with the hosting family.
In fact, today's post will be kept short in comparison to the previous article where we tried to portray all those thoughts and camera angles. Although still a very interesting point popped up, of course. Yesterday was planned with the least effort and had no introduction or conclusion… the day wasn't jam packed and we were open for any changes. At the the end however it turned out that:
We found our rock
We ended up in a military base, visiting the quarters of Wakie's work. From there we continued the trip to Baalbek Temples; an area known for its famous Roman temples. Despite the draining midday heat, it was an unwinding experience and an excellent stage for some laughter.
Hungry (naturally!), we went to eat 'sfieha' - a traditional pastry made fresh using minced meat wrapped in pasta. The method is in itself quite traditional as well… one would generally start from the butcher where the filling may be ordered. After purchasing the filling, one then goes directly to a bakery where the raw meat is placed in pastry and baked in the oven, right there and then. I must say, it was quite a fascinating experience observing all the skilled men in the process.
Julian's new best friend
On our way back home we ended up in a sort of complex (belonging to a friend of Nada's) which contains venues for weddings and pool parties. Immediately we were invited for some relaxed time and that is exactly what we did. Together in the pool, laughing, talking and releasing thoughts made us bond even more, especially with the hosting family who might be experiencing the same situations from another perspective (we are a tiring group, I suppose)! Finally as soon as we were planning to head home, Nada's friend came personally to invite us to a pre-wedding celebration that night...yes, that evening, that same hour. We ended up visiting even though with swimsuit and clothes from a full day out. And here comes my observation…
Dean and Jean, and a letter in between
Observation…
During the past few days I could clearly notice the respect that each person shows to his or her family! Even if the person must go out of his way completely to accommodate or enjoy the company, even if within a circle of friends of friends of friends like us, "You are friends of Nada, therefore you are like family to us, please feel like home!" That was the message of the groom's friend who invited us!
If I would take something back in my luggage from the experience of living with Lebanese families would definitely be the respect within the family and who ever works for the same company! Indeed, it is truly refreshing.
Next up… Sunday a full day out. This time, a planned trip.
Have a well-rested break in Malta too!
Adrian Cassar
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